Your reputation is not only the things you do but also in the words you say.
Some people have a reputation of giving encouraging words while others hurtful and demeaning words.
Some people have a reputation for kind acts and others for harmful actions.
Reputation check: Make two columns, in column 1 list all the good actions/words you gave over the last week. In column 2 list all the harmful actions/words you gave over the last week.
Which column fills up quicker?