Sometime back I was listening to one of my mentors talk about how to allow good things to happen in your life. One thing that stuck in my head was him saying, “People focus so much on what they don’t have that it becomes and obsessive thought. They think about NOT having it so much they never get it.”
When you want confidence that only reinforces the fact that you don’t have confidence.
A light bulb went off in my brain! If you want kindness, you must first give kindness. If you want money, you must first give money. If you want love, you must first give love. If you want respect, you must first give respect.
Homework: think of something you want more of right now… now go give it!