If you want change, to become a “new person”, you must first understand what your values are. How do you do that? It’s not about looking at a bunch of words and choosing what you think best describes yourself.
Make a list of the time you spent on activities. Time spent on watching TV, playing games, browsing Facebook and Instagram. Time spent with family, time spent reading “fun” books, time spent reading “growth” books. Time you spent on exercise, time you spent being outdoors.
Once you have that figured out than list what you spent your money on. How much spent on charity, how much spent on food, how much spent shopping, how much spent on experience.
Who you are today it the sum of the activities you did and money you spent.
If you really want to change, audit your list.